SEX.
three little letters...ONE BIG ASS COMPLICATION.
What is the obsession with sex? Having it or not, it seems to be a huge deal that changes relationships. And i'm not just talking about boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, but all relationships: friendships, siblings , parents. The truth is after one has done the deed they are not looked at in the same way, because "they are not the same person."
But what started this hazy belief that after one has had sex that they are not the same, because honestly i dont understand how one thing entering the body for an extremely less than permanent amount of time can really make that much of a change.
The truth is Sex is Sex. plain and simple. its a pleasurable deed which can be used for procreation. And the only thing that changes you about sex is emotion and expectations. (Brings new meaning to the term "mindfucked")
Talking to friends I find the ones who lost there virginity to someone they felt would be in their lives forever are the ones who regret it. Because they had hopes that sex would mean something, when in fact it is just an act.
Now don't get me wrong I'm not saying sex should be treated like some animal act, although that is what it indeed is. We are human and should learn to control our urges, otherwise we should just forfeit our minds and ability to contemplate and such. But if we could learn to separate the act of sex and the emotion that often comes with it, I think the hype of sex would no longer be existent. (and the world would have a lot less shows about teen pregnancy aha)
