Thursday, April 29, 2010

Do you have diet life?


Compromise. Sacrifice. Settlements. Why is it we come across these words? In life, we are told that by never settling we will eventually come across what we want, but thats not reality is it? No, its more of some dream we all hope to achieve but never will. Because in reality, life is a compromise, right? In fact life is a series of compromises, getting one thing we desire while sacrificing another. I like to call it the Diet of Life, because that's what it reminds me of. It's not necessarily a bad thing, just an observation. If work is a size 2, and fun is a chocolate cake, you have to decide how much cake you are willing to sacrifice to fit into those jeans. After all the hard work and sleepless nights, can we ever really have our cake and it it too? No. Sure there are people in the world with the "fast metabolism" but most of us aren't the exception, most of us are the rule. In life, we need to learn to take what we get and be grateful for it. Sure it's important to not stop dreaming or believing, but it is equally important to stay grounded with a bit of reality. I think The Rolling Stones grasp what i mean best with their lyric, "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you find you get what you need." So keep up the dedication, but remember that life isn't a fairy tale and without those little mistakes and compromises, well we aren't really living are we?

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

I wonder...


I don't get how people can absolutely love you one day and then completely hate you the next. You can be complete friends with the person for years and they disregard it just because they see something one way and don't care if thats not the way it is at all. I will always be there for the people who are in my life esp the ones that i know will always be there for me. But i don't think ill ever be able to fully trust them again. Everything you say i hear about and it hurts but if thats how you feel i cant change it. you cant control everyones lives and you will never be able to control mine. i will do what i want and be with whoever i want. And they will do the same. no matter how much you've hurt me i have never done anything to hurt you like this. so i will from now on let it be. I always thought that you would be in my life forever. I always saw you in my life but i guess i was wrong and read you wrong. You can be such a great person but its only on your terms and im sick of it plus you dont put effort into anything anyway either. We were just too different and i guess that will never change. I will always remember the times we had together and they were amazing but i guess it was doomed from the start. I will always love you and if things change then they do but as of right now im sick of taking the blame for everything this time its your turn.

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Judgement.


So my friends and I were Chat-Rouletting the other day when a thought occurred to me: Why is it we care so much what people think? Here I am talking to a total stranger, someone who I will more than likely never see again, trying to impress them. Who are they that they deserve such effort? Judgement is a very temperamental subject. No one wants to be judged yet we all do the judging. If a person is truly secure in who they are, why should it matter that someone thinks poorly of them? And here's where I get confused; if everybody judges and everyone hates being judged, then is anyone fully happy with themselves? Is it too Utopian to believe that one day I will love myself for who I am and not care what people think? Because lets face it... even those that say they don't care, still get affected by judgement. Perhaps the beginning to not caring what people think is to not think so poorly of them in the first place. When we love others for who they are, then I believe we can love ourselves.