this is for the girls that stayed up all night long listening to him whine about an ex girlfriend who cheated on him, & cried during the entire conversation. The one that hoped he would realize that he deserved better, that he deserved us. when he said that he loved you, but he was in love with her, he didn't mean it. this is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with. this is for us girls, who somehow managed to get him to forget about her, & get him to tell us that he was in love with us again only to have him tell us three weeks later that "things were going way too fast, he needs time." heres to the girls who couldn't cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt. the ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again. this is for the ones who couldn't bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an "i told you so." the ones that could just tell that they made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts &Z their dreams again. we knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us. we just wanted the one that we loved like that.
Heres for the ones that finally realized that he never gave a crap about them. heres for the time that he broke your heart again. this is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, & the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment. Heres for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better. this is for those confusing days, when you miss him & want nothing more that to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist. stay strong and remember that relationships are like broken glass; sometimes its better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together & get hurt. remember the times you cried &how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that. When "your song" comes on the radio, turn the station. when the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made & tries calling, turn your phone off. when he tries coming to your house, dont answer the door. think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation & the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the crap he was. think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night & how it fell to your stomach when you say it wasnt him, and realized that once again, he hadnt called when he said he was going to. one day you'll find a guy whos worth the tears but he wont make you cry. you may think that you'll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always run back to, but you will. its going to hurt like crap, & its going to need time to heal, but the point is it will heal. this is for those girls who fell back in love with their ex, only to get hurt all over again. heres to all the girls who used to be his number one. the ones who waited all night for him to call. only to check the caller id the next morning & be disappointed. the ones who made it through that bitter break up, dried your own tears, & moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it months later like nothing ever happened. those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this phone call was going. The ones who listened to him say "i only wanted to be your friend," one day, and the next listened to him say how much he loves & misses you.we deserve something so this is our tribute. heres to the ones that took him back, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change. we listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught crap from our parents, & even snuck around to see him for a while. we went through the great stage with no fights all over again. we started this out thinking it would just be friends, & ended up falling in love with him again.we wanted nothing more in the world then to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time. and when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming. this is for all of us. heres to the ones who believed what he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days.heres for the tears cried and dried all over again. we wanted so desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldnt possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early. we trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us. we learned to settle for someone who didnt treat us the way we should be treated. heres for the ones who did their hair and make-up & put on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say he couldnt see us today. the ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else. we just couldnt believe that he could possibly do this to us again. this is for those great girls who loved him more than words can say, & took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldnt bear to look back on their lives one day & wonder "what if"
this is for you
